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Learn to Say Fuck Candle | Self-affirmation Candle | Sandalwood

Learn to Say Fuck Candle | Self-affirmation Candle | Sandalwood

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A candle to assert yourself, take your place and above all, tell your mental load to go and annoy someone else, and let the rest... go up in smoke.

Because it's time to stop being the neighborhood doormat. This candle is here to remind you that learning to say "no" never killed anyone (except maybe guilt, but that deserved it). Tired of saying yes to annoying invitations, annoying work stuff, and impossible promises? You know what to do now.

"No" isn't a bad word, contrary to what some people seem to think. And if you're the type to say "yes" even when it pisses you off, this candle is (per)fect for you. Because the art of saying no can be learned, and it changes your life, girl, trust me. "Learn to say fuck" isn't just a candle, it's a cry of rebellion, an olfactory reminder that your inner peace (and incidentally, your mental health) is more important than any social obligation.

Light this candle and repeat after me: "I don't have time for other people's bullshit." This candle is your helping hand to set boundaries, to say no without guilt, and to remind yourself that fuck it also means "I choose to respect myself." The soothing sandalwood scent of this slightly rebellious candle encourages you to embrace that beautiful "I'm fed up" energy and say it loud and clear.

So, the next time you're asked to cook at 10 p.m. while preparing your endless to-do list for the week, or you give a big "yes" to your girlfriend who's "moving out alone, I promise" and looking for help for the third time this year, light this candle, take a deep breath, and whip out your secret weapon by saying this little magic word: FUCK (or just "no," that's fine too) . Oh, and bonus, those around you will quickly understand that you're not here to joke around anymore.

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Description

Handmade in France by me (strange to say like that, I grant you)

  • 125ml paint pot candle:
    Burning time: 20-25 hours
    Pure cotton wick
    Sold with its cover
  • 250ml paint pot candle:
    Burning time: 40-45 hours
    Wooden wick
    Sold with its cover

Composition

  • Contains : CASHMERAN (33704-61-9), CEDRAMBER (19870-74-7), COUMARIN (91-64-5), ISO E SUPER (54464-57-2).

May produce an allergic reaction. Harmful to aquatic life with long lasting effects. Keep out of reach of children.

  • Candle made from 100% vegetable soy wax
  • Wick made of two strips of maple wood glued together (non-toxic glue)
  • Grasse perfumes without CMR, phthalates and animal cruelty
  • Natural, eco-friendly, non-toxic grain dye

Olfactory Pyramid

Olfactory Family : Woody, oriental

  • Top notes : Cardamom, Elemi
  • Heart notes : Patchouli, cedar, iris
  • Base notes : Sandalwood, white musk, amber

The top note is the first impression, the middle note is the one that lingers, and the base note is the most intense and long-lasting.

Perfumes from Grasse, the world capital of perfume. Guaranteed CMR-free, phthalate-free, and cruelty-free. 100% clean.

Delivery

All orders are shipped within 2 to 3 business days – tracking number provided by email. Colissimo home delivery (2-4 business days) and Mondial Relay to a collection point (3-5 business days).

Shipping costs are paid by the customer and are calculated at checkout.

We offer free Mondial Relay delivery in France for purchases over 59 euros.

Learn more about our shipping rates and return policy.

You have 14 days from the date of receipt of your order to request a return.

In short

  • The "self-affirmation" candle to learn how to set your limits and say no without feeling guilty.
  • Promotes self-confidence, personal assertiveness, and the courage to forge one's own path without paying attention to what others think.
  • Perfect for those times when you need a reminder: “My inner peace and mental health come first.”
  • Scented candle to soothe your mind and boost your self-confidence.

Perfect for...

Mood "Badass Girl Vibe" & "For Shitty Days"

Customer Reviews

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Chizaa
Bougie validé !

Je l'ai offerte à une amie, elle a adoré ! Aussi bien le packaging que l'odeur :)
La description nous a fait beaucoup rire, elle se retrouvait SIII bien dedans !!

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Maëva
Une véritable thérapie

Je n'avais pas encore ouvert mon colis que l'odeur embaumait déjà mes narines. C'est un 10/10 ! J'adore sa couleur, sa longévité, son mantra et bien évidemment son odeur. 🕯🪵💛
Allumer cette bougie, c'est inscrire dans son esprit qu'on est le main character de notre vie ! ✌🏼

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B.
Prête à m'affirmer !

Cette bougie est parfaite. Son odeur est juste divine, j'adore le bois de santal... mais j'ai surtout adoré son message, ce cadeau m'a beaucoup fait rire et m'a motivée à enfin apprendre à dire non (ou fuck) 😁!
Une très belle découverte.
Merci